Monday, July 23, 2012

Guest Blogger: Katie Moore

Postpartum Nutrition Tips

During pregnancy, you watched your diet like a tiger mom because you wanted your developing baby to get the right nutrition. Now that you've had the baby, nutrition counts more than ever because you need to be healthy and have energy for the new demands of motherhood.

Before changing your diet too much from your pregnancy diet, be sure to consult your doctor. I spoke to my doctor constantly throughout my pregnancy about many options like my diet to other optional health choices like breastfeeding and cord blood banking. When I wanted to change my diet up to promote weight loss, I spoke to my doctor first to be sure I wasn’t making changes too soon.

What You Should Eat

If breastfeeding, you need 6 1/2 servings of foods with protein and 3 servings of milk products. You need 8 serving of grains, breads and cereals and 2 cups of fruit. You should eat 3 cups of vegetables a day and 3 servings of unsaturated fats.
Breastfeeding mothers will burn extra calories, but you will also need extra calories to keep up with your milk production needed.

Bottle-feeding mothers under age 25 should eat 5 servings of protein, 3 milk products and 7 grains. You should also eat 5 servings of fruit, 3 cups vegetables and 3 servings of unsaturated fats.

Bottle-feeding mothers over 25 years old need 5 protein servings, 2 milk products, 6 servings in the grain group, 5 fruits, 3 cups vegies and 3 servings of unsaturated fats.

Any way you look at it,
postpartum nutrition is good for all women. It features a balanced diet of food in all the major food groups.

Protein

One ounce of fish, beef, poultry or pork is each one serving. One hardboiled egg is one serving. One-half cup of pinto, soy or kidney beans is one serving. Three ounces of tofu, 1/4 cup of peanuts, 2 tablespoons of peanut butter or 1/3 cup of any other kind of nuts equals one protein serving. With all of the food in the protein category, you should have a wide variety of food choices.

Milk Products

One serving consists of 8 ounces of milk or yogurt, 1 1/2 ounce of hard cheese (cheddar, Swiss, etc.), 1/2 cup of ricotta cheese, 1 1/2 cups of frozen yogurt or ice cream and 2 cups of cottage cheese. For dessert, you can have 1 cup of custard or pudding made from milk.

Grains

One dinner roll or slice of bread is one serving. So is 1/2 English muffin or half a bagel. One small tortilla or a whole-wheat muffin is a serving. Six saltine crackers or 12 wheat crackers is a serving, along with 3/4 cup non-sugared cereal. A waffle or pancake counts as a serving and so do 3 cups of popcorn.

Fruits and Vegetables

Any fruit or vegetable counts as a serving as long as it is between 1/2 to 1 cup. Be sure to include foods, like carrots, that are rich in Vitamin A.

Unsaturated Fats

A tablespoon of margarine or vegetable oil is a serving. So is a tablespoon of salad dressing, 10 small olives or 1/8 avocado. Try to stay away from saturated fats like butter.

You don't need to feel stressed about eating the right foods, quantities or any other aspect of good nutrition. Just work daily on eating right and staying healthy. The rest will follow.

“Katie Moore has written and submitted this article. Katie is an active blogger who discusses the topics of, motherhood, children, fitness, health and all other things Mommy. She enjoys writing, blogging, and meeting new people! To connect with Katie contact her via her blog, Moore From Katie or her twitter, @moorekm26.”

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Reconnecting

Sometimes, we all need that time - you know, to reconnect....with your family, with yourself - namely with your soul.

Vacations can be a wonderful thing.  Vacations can be a diastrous thing.  Vacation is simply what you make it.

For me, the first whiff of that salty, ocean air.....and my shoulders start to slide down, back into their normal position.  The weight of the world that I tend to carry up near my ears.....it slowly dissipates; it vaporizes almost instantly once we cross over that man made bridge into a special land - Cape Cod.

Something about being amongst the sandy dunes allows me to reconnect with my family.  The only hustle and bustle of these few days is making sure we get to the beach with enough water and snacks in tow to last at least six hours of non-stop fun.  We dodge crabs, we splash, we sun and we sunscreen until the empty tubes make funny fart sounds.

Nearly daily trips to the Sundae School for delicious ice cream has a way of coddling your inner emotional being.  A few bloody Mary's at "happy hour" cradles you into the evening hours.  Homemade dinners chock full of veggies, from our CSA at home, help surge vitamins through your veins.

Sitting on the beach allows me to reconnect with me.  Yes, me.  As I gaze over the blessed creatures known as my spawn; I am thankful for the joy they bring to me.  I take a few glazes over the vast ocean view and plan what goals and changes I need to make in the next twelve months.  Sure, sometimes they are the same goals that have gone unchanged from the year prior; but hey, that to-do list is an on-going work in progress.  I resolve to improve the less than stellar qualities of myself.  I resolve to be kinder to myself.

Somehow, every July, I come home from a jaunt at the beach feeling more alive, more refreshed, more awakened and more reconnected within my soul. 

Now, if I can only win the lottery so I can vacation more frequently!!! 

What does vacation do for you?





Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Lean on Myself

Ever been in a situation when no one else gets it? Has very little idea of what you are talking about or where you are coming from? And you search for someone who gets it. You mention it to a lot of people and they look perplexed, but understanding...
A frustration.
But then you take a moment to chat it all over with yourself- and YOU get it. Sometimes that is enough. A grown up moment when you don't need someone else's validation, just your own. It is rare, but important. And you are an awesome person. It is great to have you on your side, is it not? Imagine if you didn't know what you were talking about. Ahhhh, me. That would be a pisser.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Struggling and I Know It

I’m struggling.  I admit it.  Somewhere along the way, after birthing three babies, I never received the Parenting Manual.  You know – the “How To Guide”, the “Mothering 101”, the “Challenges of Raising Girls and Boys (they ARE from Mars!)”.  However, having a 14 year old daughter, an 11 year old son, and a 4 year old daughter……I have hit some bumps along the way; but I feel confident that I am raising stable, happy, and uber-well-loved children.

Let me introduce you to puberty. 

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Even if we were given a freshly pressed manual on the how-to-care for the little love bundles we leave the hospital with; well, let me just set you straight (or maybe you already know) – puberty takes everything, and I mean everything, off the table…..there are no-holds-barred when the hormones take up residence in your home.

My 14 year old daughter has been a cake walk.  She hit puberty very early; yet the only challenge I have with her is a couple of days before that monthly visitor.  Within minutes of rearing her nasty, ugly, hormonal rage face on mom, she very quickly retorts with an apology that melts your heart.

H…O…W…E…V…E…R, she has been absolutely ridiculous with her body image; especially these past few weeks of summer.  At first, it saddened me so much that she has such a warped view of her body.  But now, I’m angry!  Angry at her (how can she not see what everyone else sees?); angry at me (have I done this or given her this sense of insecurity about her body image?); and angry at society (are the relentless covers of scantily-clad, inappropriately thinned bags of skin on every magazine cover sending her a subliminal message that perhaps her amazing body is not good enough?)!!

You see, this is the summer of the bikinis.  Yes.  Everyone, and I mean everyone (NOT ME – NOT A SNOWBALL’S CHANCE IN DEVIL’S LAND), is wearing a bikini this year.  My daughter decided she would love to wear one, but she hated how she looked.  Momma Bear was given a mission:  a mission to prove to this child that she is beautiful and can rock a bikini! 

This girl plays hours and hours of soccer every week.  This girl works out several hours a week.  She is STRONG - insanely strong for a 14 year old.  This girl has legs that are so muscular and so powerful….yet; she is hung up on her tummy “flub”.  I have tried to convince her that she is just beautiful; she can’t be stick thin because she will not have the power, the strength, the endurance for the sport that she loves – but I’m mom, what do I know? 

Puberty has morphed her body - from that little kid ball of love, into a young woman with curves – you know:  boobs, hourglass figure, hips and did I mention absolutely beautiful and strong legs?!  My kid has never been in better shape, but yet, her self-esteem - when it comes to how her body looks - has never been lower.  Holy Shish-Ka-Bobs.


I think back to circa 1988, when I was all of 14….and I realize, that perhaps, I was precisely the same way as my daughter.  I was strong, I was physically fit, and I was not a fan of my body.  Why?  Why are we like this?  Is it hormones?  Is it society – the expectations, the “norm”, the perception….?  I’m so confused and honestly, I do not know if I’m handling it right or wrong.  My girl seems to be improving a teeny, tiny, micro-minute-millimeter and now focuses on the Irish/Welsh skin she inherited (“How can a person be THIS white, mom?”) instead of the so called “flub” that she tries to pinch and convince me that I am indeed blind to not see it.

The good news is she’s wearing a bikini.  She has a couple of different styles; and dagnabbit, if she wants more, I will purchase more so that she continues to wear them.  Hopefully, she will see what the rest of us see….an absolutely stunning, physically fit, and confident young woman.

(And next time, I will share with you the wonders of an 11 year old boy in puberty.  If I had a spaceship, I might ship him off to Mars…where I swear he belongs). 

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Good stuff floating out there.

Paying it forward is a powerful thing. I am not really into mystical stuff, nor am I religious in the least. But there is something about throwing positive stuff out there. It can be a momentary act, but it floats out there for a long time. Long past the time you would even think to peek to see how it all is going out there, because of you.


On a day last week when I decided to pay it forward in the form of furniture that had served my 3 kids, I came home to a repaired bottom of my driveway. A road crew working on a manhole decided to fill the rut that made us all bottom out for years. And they were gone! I couldn't thank them. Such a kindness. So small and yet so nice. You can't always thank those that preform the acts of kindness, but you can keep them going out of respect.



I do try and donate money when I can, or prepare a meal for a family who needs a boost, or fill a backpack in August for a child in need. But sometimes it is just a matter of bringing up a neighbor's garbage can or telling a mom how wonderful her children are behaving. My day has been made by a compliment- especially in the days of my coming last in the getting ready/out the door/ even looking in a mirror department. I have felt relieved when an extended family member has made it their mission to shower attention on one of my kids when my hands were filled with another. So many little things can be so big. And they take a moment and last a lifetime in someone's heart, even if no one knows it is there any more. 
Kindness changes people.

Friday, July 6, 2012

Peanut Noodle Salad


Seriously, what I need from you all right now is for you to make this and eat this and go about your lives.



Peanut Noodle Salad

INGREDIENTS
  • 1pound spaghetti 
  • 1tablespoon salt
  • 3tablespoons toasted sesame oil
  • 3/4cup chunky peanut butter 
  • 6tablespoons soy sauce
  • 3tablespoons white vinegar
  • 1tablespoon grated fresh ginger
  • 1tablespoon hot sauce optional (I use a dash because I am seriously Irish)
  • 1cucumber, peeled, quartered lengthwise, seeded, and sliced thin
  • 1red bell pepper, seeded and cut into 1/4-inch strips
  • 1/3cup chopped fresh cilantro (I use less since I am not very cilantro-y)
INSTRUCTIONS
  • 1. COOK PASTA Bring 4 quarts water to boil in large pot. Add pasta and salt to boiling water and cook until al dente. Reserve ¾ cup cooking water. Drain pasta in colander, rinse with cold water until cool, drain once more, and transfer to large bowl. Add sesame oil and toss to coat.
  • 2. DRESS AND TOSS Whisk peanut butter, soy sauce, vinegar, ginger, hot sauce, and 6 tablespoons pasta cooking water in medium bowl until smooth. Add dressing, cucumber, bell pepper, and cilantro to pasta and toss to combine, adding reserved pasta water as needed to adjust consistency. Take the bowl and go hide somewhere so you can stuff your face alone in an air conditioned room.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Exceptional You.

You cannot change the world,
But you can present the world with one improved person -
Yourself.
You can go to work on yourself to make yourself
Into the kind of person you admire and respect.
You can become a role model and set a standard for others.
You can control and discipline yourself to resist acting
Or speaking in a negative way
Toward anyone for any reason.
You can insist upon always doing things the loving way,
Rather than the hurtful way.
By doing these things each day,
You can continue on your journey
Toward becoming an exceptional human being.

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